This morning I got up, had my first cup of coffee and did my normal routine of checking my email and opening the tabs to Twitter, Facebook, G+ and the News to see what is going on … some people read the newspaper while savoring their first cup of coffee, this is what I do.    While I was busy going through everything, bookmarking some, laughing at what I call my Facebook funnies. one Facebook post caught me attention:

The key to preventing moldy berries? Vinegar!

When you get your berries home,  prepare a mixture of one part vinegar (white or apple cider probably work best) and ten parts water. Dump the berries into the mixture and swirl around. Drain, rinse if you want, (though the mixture is so diluted I find you can’t taste the vinegar,) and pop in the fridge.

The vinegar kills any mold spores and other bacteria that might be on the surface of the fruit, and voila! Raspberries will last a week or more, and strawberries go almost two weeks without getting moldy and soft.

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Which Mirror Do You See?

When you look in a mirror what do you see?

“There is a story about about a very wicked hobgoblin; he was one of the very worst, for he was a real demon. One day, when he was in a merry mood,
he made a looking-glass which had the power of making everything good or beautiful that was reflected in it almost shrink to nothing, while everything that was worthless and bad looked increased in size and worse than ever. The most lovely landscapes appeared like boiled spinach, and the people became hideous, and looked as if they stood on their heads and had no bodies. Their countenances were so distorted that no one could recognize them, and even one freckle on the face appeared to spread over the whole of the nose and mouth. The demon said this was very amusing. When a good or pious thought passed through the mind of any one it was misrepresented in the glass; and then how the demon laughed at his cunning invention………

As Lynn S. has said about Narcissism Land Everything is upside-down in Narcissism Land. The days are dark, the nights are bright, and fires aren’t doused, they’re fanned. The person will say “I love you” oozing animosity. Fear becomes bravado mixed with grandiosity. And if you dare to argue that his view is rearranged, The person will only answer back that you’re the one deranged. When he starts feeling anxious, he’ll say you seem quite insane. “Deficiences abound,” he cries, “in your disordered brain.” He lies then claims the truth is his, but you, now, you’re a mole. “How can you question me?” he asks. “You must not have a soul.” When he’s confused, then you’re the one who needs to be much clearer. So when they project like that, just hand the guy a mirror.  There are many people, who have had to deal with at some time or another with those who are disordered.. On the outside looking so “normal”, functioning as though everything is fine, but if one takes the time or has been the object of their attentions, then your whole world is turned upside down. For a long time, I looked through the demons mirror and so I know how hard it can be. Thankfully there are now cracks in that mirror and I hope and pray that one day the glass will finally shatter!

Life is what we make it…not as the demon would have it… remember this when you look in the mirror…which mirror will it be?

Let’s have a #dogerday!

Today I ask you to put away #caterday and adopt a #dogerday. image of George Graham Vest =”178″ height=”225″ />   Dogs – considered “man’s best friend” has been an integeral part of our lives for over 1500 years and yet the term “man’s best friend” did not become the popular phrase it is today until 1869 when George Graham Vest used the phrase during his final summation to a jury during a court case. It is worth reprinting the final summation as it is how many people feel to this day about their pet, their friends and companions ~

Gentlemen of the Jury

The best friend a man has in this world may turn against him and become his enemy. His son and daughter that he had reared with loving care may become ungrateful. Those who are nearest and dearest to us, those whom we

trust with our happiness and our good name, may become traitors to their faith. The money that a man has, he may lose. It flies away from him when he may need it most. Man’s reputation may be sacrificed in a moment of ill considered action. The people who are prone to fall on their knees and do us honor when success is with us may be the first to throw the stone of malice when failure settles its cloud upon our head. The only absolutely unselfish friend a man may have in this selfish world, the one that never deserts him, the one that never proves ungrateful or treacherous is his dog.

A man’s dog stands by him in prosperity and poverty, in health and sickness. He will sleep on the cold ground, when the wintry winds blow and the snow drives fiercely, if only he can be near his master’s side. He will kiss the hand that has no food to offer, he will lick the wounds and sores that come in encounter with the roughness of the world. He guards the sleep of a pauper as if he were a prince. When all other friends desert… he remains. When riches take wings and reputations fall to pieces, he is as constant in his love as the sun in its journey through the heavens. If fortune drives the master forth an outcast into the world, friendless and homeless, the faithful dog asks no higher privilege than that of accompanying him to guard him against danger, to fight against his enemies, and when the last scene of all comes, and death takes his master in its embrace and his body is laid away in the cold ground, no matter if all other friends pursue their way, there by his grave side will the noble dog be found, his head between his paws and his eyes sad, but open in alert watchfulness, faithful and true even to death. ( Burden v. Hornsby (1870)) image of Old Drum Statue Read more »

Stick Your Neck Out!

  The reality is that doing anything is a risk, but sometimes you have to stick your neck out to get what you want!  

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Parenting Tip – What is the Secret Word?

How often as a parent have you said to your children “Don’t talk to Strangers” or “if someone wants you to go look or see their puppies – then r

un away” ?

The reason I am talking about this is because of two different conversations that I had this morning and there is a point to all of this…… The first conversation was with Sam McFarland on Facebook about abuse and as always conversations have a habit of taking on a life of their own as seen in this screenshot -   facebook conversation with Sam Mcfarland  

“the first day she was allowed to walk back from school alone – and lured her to the car by saying they had a shih tzu puppy….  

How do we help and teach our children to be safe in the midst of strangers and how do we get through to them that cute puppies or not …never to go with a stranger?

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of what others have said via blog posts and articles, I did find one post that was very good and quite realistic and that was from Ali Goldfield on her blog Therapy Stew. Ali made an important statement “Instead of “don’t talk to strangers,” it is strongly suggested that we teach children how to interact with strangers and how to watch out for dangerous adult behaviors.”

I agree that bubble wrapping our children is not the way keep them safe and I also agree with the different tips that Ali outlined, but I also found one parenting tip that is not being mentioned and that was something that Sam mentioned – “The Secret Word”

Now what is the secret word you ask?

The secret word was something that around 30 or so years ago that I was taught to use to help protect my daughters. What it was ..was a code word that only the children and parents knew. If someone approached a kid for any reason and did not know the code word ( or secret word) that child KNEW never to go with that adult and trust me it worked! I still remember implementing this idea into my family and we had fun coming up with a word that we all could remember and then making it work for us. I still remember the time when a friend of mine went to pick up my kids from school and they refused to get into the car with her, because she did not know the secret word. I found this very good video, that you as a parent can use to help teach this important concept to your children or to help you understand the concept yourself to pass on to your children.   Sometimes it is the simple ideas that work and the ones that need to be remembered, lets face it, parenting today is as challenging if not more so as it was when I was a parent of young children…. do you have a secret word?  













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